To a large extent, men are becoming the weaker sex and that is never how it was meant to be. It is an unfortunate reality but it is happening. In order to avoid this and for men to lead more fulfilling lives, they need to meet with other men in Men’s groups.
Men Supporting Men
There are many different types of men’s groups out there. There are those for divorce, for grieving, for career enhancement, and for dealing with diseases. No matter what, the idea is for men to support men. Since a lot of men today have been raised by women, they do not have the male relationship skills needed in life.
The only solution to this is for men to meet with men and support each other in a no BS fashion – as it was intended to be right from the beginning.
As a man, you do not want to be alone. You want to have friends and that is a good thing. At the same time, are those friends really your supporters? They may be and they may not be, in the capacity that a good men’s group would be.
It is time to face facts and shed your femininity. While society is starting to rave more and more about men embracing their feminine side, this is largely part of removal of masculinity from the man. It is just not healthy.
By no means does this mean you need to disrespect women or not have friendship with them. Quite the contrary, you should respect them and have them as friends and lovers. In fact, you will be better at those things when you have support from other men.
Learning to Deal Like a Man
Life is a tough arena to deal with. There are many things that can arise that make life very tough to live. Instead of committing suicide or giving into depression, you should seek the support of a men’s group. Only other men will understand what it is like to be a man.
With that in mind, consider the type of group you will want to join. Ideally, it should be one that has a strong structure and truly teaches you how to deal with problems like a man. It should be led by men and organized by men.
In this way, all of you can learn from each other and, regardless of the reasons you came to the group, you can become a better man.
Male Emotional Support
Often it is thought that men do not concern themselves with emotions. While this may be true for some, it is more accurate to say that men tend to conceal and hide their emotions. This is not at all healthy. At the same time, you don’t want to go crying on just any shoulder.
When you have a men’s group you can trust, you can learn how to deal with your emotions and express them in a way that is truly healthy as a man. You don’t have to be embarrassed and you can establish real trust with real male friends.